Escort Services and Hiring Care Help
Subsidised services have waiting lists and family members have full-time jobs. Many families end up filling the gap in between with money. The private-pay options run from escorts at a few hundred dollars a visit to live-in domestic helpers, and they are very different in nature. If the wrong type is chosen, the money is spent and the gap remains. This page first sets out a map of the options, and then looks at escorting to medical appointments, which looks simple but is not.
What the four private-pay care services are for
Before deciding which type of help to hire, it is worth working out what the gap at home really is: is it a lack of help for particular hours (nobody to look after the older person for certain hours), a lack of nursing skills (someone is at home but does not know how to handle things), or a need for round-the-clock help? These three situations match different services, as below:
- Escort
- This service is charged per visit and is mainly used to cover the half day of a follow-up appointment. It suits an older person who has difficulty getting around when family members find it hard to take leave to go with them. The real requirements of an escort service are quite demanding, as explained in detail below.
- Hourly care worker
- This service is charged by the hour and suits filling a gap at fixed times. Examples are a few hours in the daytime when someone needs to look after the older person or help with bathing, or half a day at the weekend so that a caregiver living in the same home can rest. If the care worker has professional training, skilled tasks such as lifting and feeding can also be handled properly.
- Live-in domestic helper
- A domestic helper is paid monthly and suits families who need someone present around the clock. A helper’s strength is looking after daily living and keeping the older person company. If lifting, feeding an older person with swallowing difficulty or handling behavioural problems is involved, these skills are ones most helpers have not been trained in, so the family needs to bring in a specialist or arrange training for the helper.
- Private carer / nursing staff
- This type of service has the highest hourly rate and is for clinical nursing needs, including wound dressing, catheter care, injecting medication and follow-up after surgery. These medical procedures should never be left to people without the relevant qualifications, so the higher fee is reasonable.
What escorting to appointments actually involves
Many people think “finding someone to go with Mum to her appointment” is just a matter of riding along and sitting beside her, but the real process is much more involved. Before leaving, the identity documents, medication bag and appointment slip are checked. The trip there and back means handling transport and wheelchair transfers. On arrival the escort queues for a number. Then, in the few minutes with the doctor, the escort has to explain the older person’s recent condition clearly and write down the doctor’s instructions accurately. After that the medication is collected, and finally the older person is taken home and the family is updated. The parts most likely to go wrong are the physical transfers in and out of the wheelchair, and passing on information in the consultation. Older people often find it hard to describe their illness clearly, and if the escort knows nothing about the older person’s recent condition, the visit can easily be wasted.
Whichever route is used to hire an escort service, a handover beforehand should never be skipped. The family should write down on paper the older person’s recent changes in health, the questions to ask the doctor and the main points of earlier appointments, and give it to the escort to carry, so that the appointment does what it should.
Questions to ask before hiring care help
- Has the person had formal care training? Which organisation trained them? (This matters especially if the older person needs lifting transfers and special feeding.)
- Has the person looked after similar cases before? (This includes older people with a similar illness and a similar level of physical dependence.)
- Which tasks does the fee cover? How are overtime, public holidays and last-minute cancellation charged?
- If the carer is ill or something unexpected happens, is there a back-up person who can step in?
- Is the person hired through an agency or privately? If through an agency, is there service follow-up and a complaint procedure?
- Never decide on price alone. If the hourly rate is clearly lower than the market rate, those services often lower their standards in staff training or back-up support.
Other sources of support besides private-pay services
Before deciding to pay out of pocket to fill the care gap, two things are worth checking first. The first is that government-subsidised community services (such as day care centres, residential respite and integrated home care services) may already take some of the load, at a much lower cost. Many families are in fact eligible and do not know it. For details, see day care centres and respite. These services need an application through the standardised assessment, as explained in standardised care need assessment and waiting list for elderly services. The second is that if the care gap is long-term and covers the whole day, the total monthly cost of piecing together private-pay services can come close to the monthly fee of a private care home. When the cost reaches that level, the family should put a care home into the comparison and weigh all the options, and not keep paying by the hour to fill gaps with no end.
Other kinds of system support besides care help, such as financial allowances, service assessment and arrangements for the transition after discharge, can be found in the overview of caregiver resources.
Disclaimer: This article is general health information and is not professional medical advice. If you have any health concerns, please consult a qualified healthcare professional.
